The Basics of Simple Signing and Building Connection Through Hands, Hearts, and Language

The Basics of Simple Signing and Building Connection Through Hands, Hearts, and Language

If you’ve ever watched a toddler wave “bye-bye” or raise their arms to be picked up, you’ve already seen the power of early communication through signs. Signing is so much more than a cute trick—it’s a bridge between hearts before words arrive.

Simple Signing uses real American Sign Language (ASL) signs to help children express themselves, understand others, and develop strong language foundations. Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or caregiver, learning to sign with young children opens the door to connection, inclusion, and joyful learning.

Why Use Simple Signs?

Before children can speak, they can sign. Research shows that children who are exposed to signs early:

  • Experience less frustration and fewer tantrums

  • Develop stronger language skills over time

  • Build confidence and connection with their caregivers

  • Gain early exposure to ASL and Deaf culture, supporting inclusion and awareness

In The Magic of Simple Signing, Jenny Stewart explains,

“When we use signs with hearing children, we’re not replacing speech—we’re supporting it. Signing gives children a visual and physical way to communicate long before their mouths can form the words.”

Start with Everyday Words

The key to success is keeping it simple. Begin with signs your child or students will use every day—those connected to their basic needs and routines:

  • More

  • All done

  • Eat

  • Milk

  • Help

  • Please

  • Thank you

  • Mom and Dad

Repeat these signs naturally during the day. For example, sign “eat” every time you offer food or “help” when your child needs assistance. Repetition builds understanding, and soon, you’ll see those little hands signing back!

Signing as a Bridge, Not a Gesture

It’s important to remember that Simple Signing uses true ASL signs, not made-up gestures. Gestures are temporary; language is lasting. By choosing ASL, you’re giving children access to a real, structured language that connects them to an entire community—the Deaf community.

As shared in The Magic of Simple Signing:

“Every time we sign with a child, we’re honoring a language that was born from Deaf culture and shared as a gift to all children who need a voice before words.”

Keep It Fun and Consistent

Children learn best through play, songs, and movement. Use signing during storytime, snack time, and transitions. Consistency is key. When adults sign regularly and with enthusiasm, children quickly catch on.

A Simple Start That Lasts a Lifetime

Introducing signs in early childhood doesn’t just support communication—it plants the seeds for empathy, inclusion, and deeper understanding of human language and expression.

If you’re ready to dive deeper, explore The Magic of Simple Signing—a comprehensive guide, written by the founder of Signing Courses. The book walks you step-by-step through integrating signs into your daily life and classroom routines, with real stories, research, and practical activities.

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